Do you or your loved one watch X rated films? Does it annoy you that they watch them? Do you consider it a form of cheating? Me personally it does not bother me at all. I would much rather my boyfriend be at home watching these films. It's only a movie. A fantasy. No harm can come from watching a movie. It's not like he is sitting in a strip club putting dollar bills in some strange girls panties. I could never understand how some people could get mad at their loved one for watching these types of films. Me and my sister debate about this all the time. Because I see nothing wrong with it. And her well she forbids her boyfriend from watching them. She thinks they are disgusting and degrading. Whats your opinion?
[question posted by phillygirl606]
responses and comments:
I think your sister is feeling inferior about herself...That's why she think its disgusting and degrading... Never got annoyed about x rated films...The only cheating part about it is to learn the difficult positions they do on films... :D [chunter]
I think these films are okay. And if it gets my boyfriend hot and bothered and he wants me, what is the problem? It is when he prefers watching these films over being with me I would have a problem.If he rather watch porn or a rated X film than sleeping with me, there's a problem.But if he likes to see them and then is willing and able to be with me, they are great. [sarahruthbeth22]
they are disgusting and degrading. lolololol and boring after 5 min...because in a few minutes are repetitive and impersonal. They shows sex for sex..and sincerely.the sex is better when have is something more than that. [luanakent]
I'd rather my partner be watching adult movies than at strip clubs or clubs messing around with a bunch of random women or men. At least with them watching movies, they're doing nothing but messing around with themselves. The only time I'd really be concerned about them watching adult films is when it became and obsession or an addiction and if they spent more time watching those movies than actually spending time with me. [highflyingxangel]
Well it is not that bad actually to watch films suck as this as long as it doesn;t affect your life. Throwing in sometimes in a hot film is good to spice up this life. or better be try to watch free streams online its easy like some site like http://pinaysextube.com/ which is a social and adult community [surfville07]
Well, people have different opinion and likings. For me, I don't see any problem if my husband watch xrated films on dvd at home. I also watch some rated X movies once in a while, but I prefer those with stories, not those xxx types which turn out to be boring coz of the repetitive sex acts. I prefer to watch it with hubby, coz it would help us also in our sex life and relationship. [joyce959]
Whats degrading about natural sex? God created us this way. He gave us the necessary equipment, and its ours to play with it anyway we like. Enough said! Have Fun! [barehugs]
i agree what you think i also think same we should talk about x rated movies to our members and try to find what they think about such films [sungat]
Well all 5 fingers aint the same so its obvious that evryone will have their own take on this.... i fell theres no harm in watching adult flims at the end of the day its just a movie u aint sleeping with that chick so its cool [francisferns]
I think there's nothing wrong with watching adult videos. For one thing it adds the spice to your relationship. Just don't overdo it and watch it everyday! Lol! Kidding aside, I believe that it's somehow a way to fulfill ones sexual fantasy. It's better than picking up someone of the streets or going to some strip club like you said. Plus, what so degrading about it? It's a necessity of man to have sex. So if one is in search of sex, and plays an adult film, isn't he feeding himself and fulfilling his sexual desire? There's nothing wrong with that. [bushfiredmx]
Honestly I have to say there was a time I watched them, but don't have the use for them. It's just getting worse and worse all the time. Extreme things that humans being do is just plain disgusting and degrading. I don't even want to discuss things that people do and make a fool of themselves on TV portraying to be a prostitute or a wh0re. If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend and you watch it together - that's your personal business then there's nothing wrong with that. But I would limit what is there to watch - one woman with 300 guys or something even worse is just flat out degrading. [darkangel079]
Yeah i watched a couple of them with some of my exs.It doesnt annoy me an all if they watch.It would only piss me if they were all addicted and rather watch them like all the time then spend time with me.Other wise its cool.I kinda think porn is funny anyways.So,whatever*** [DLOPEZ240]
im not a hypocrite type of person, i like watching them. my girlfriend knows about it, but she doesn't like me watching that. well, what can she do. that's my way of getting through a tough feeling of you wanted to have s3x but you can't due to some circumstances. i think it's not a form of cheating. it's too far from it. [adrenalyne_rush]
I love it if my man watches porn movie..... Ive never catch them watching it but i would have to give them some trouble for not iviting me. If they allways want to watch it then i would be like*yo whats wrong with our porn that we make* I dont think its cheating but men shouldnt hide it.....Im very open mined and I dont mind goign to the stripers either i like grils and playing with them.... just would be jelouse on my man spending the money one her when he could spend it on me. [chilenita]
I'll watch them with him...why not? maybe we could learn something new & exciting...you never know. I'd rathe watch them with him than have him go to a strip joint anyday. I'm ok with my sexuality....Lori [dumblnddzzy]
I find no reason wrong with these films. If the women is being degraded than i turn that one off. I saw a video the guy was slapping her shoving his penis down her throat, she turned red gagging, slapping her breasts and her body was red and white with handprints, that is abuse and i wont watch it. Some porn can be down right halarius such as (squirt) videos im sorry but watching a guy or women catching female ijaculation is funny! some porn can really get me in a mood and i love watching it with my hubby. I do not let him watch it alone, if he wants to watch porn, ill perform for him:) [samila18]
I have no problem with my mate watching pornographic films. I just don't watch them myself. I mean, anything they are doing in them I can do if I so feel, so why should I watch them. I have an aunt that watches these films to critique them. I think its so funny when she watches them. You can hear her in the other room screaming "Look at her! She almost choked herself to death that time!" I think she is crazy for doing it, but that's her prerogative. [drknlvly6781]
LOL. I see where you are coming from and where most of the other posters are coming from, but I will have to agree with your sister. I was actually going to post a discussion similar to this. My man doesn't watch the films anymore...he took all of it out of the house and boxed it up, but didn't get rid of it. our compromise when i moved in was that he had to get it out of the house b/c i didn't want boobs starring me in the face every time i opened the movie cabinet or when i went to the bathroom...i know when they are batchelors they have hords of it, my thing was if we are serious and i so turn you on like you say i do and you haven't watched it since we have been together then why do you need it in your house still? If i supposedly am so smokin hott and turn him on so much then why would he still need that crap? Turns out it was a pride thing...his turf..whatever. I know men are visually stimulated and we are more emotional, and that is what bugs me i guess. So maybe it is an insecurity and that is your sisters problem as well. I try to think about this deeprooted issue and the cause of it b/c believe me I don't like to be a prude. I find that if it is about me though it is fine. If he takes pics of me or video of me or things we do together then I don't mind. So, I think it comes from a relationship long ago where i didn't have an issue with this and i watched one with my man at the time and he wouldn't stop talking about the girl on the tape....her very well endowed attributes, he would talk about my BFF's very fine attributes where mine weren't as well endowed...he never complimented me, I guess it stuck and hasn't gone away. so maybe that is what you sis has a problem with. Who knows. I think they are disgusting and degrading too! But there is probably a reason for that. I dunno. [Live2Learn]
I was actually just thinking about this the other night. I am torn in my decision. Yeah, I dont really mind. If you like it, go for it, you know? I dont want to control him and stop him from what he likes. Only problem I have with it is because of me. My boyfriend is a very confident man. I am the exact opposite. Im not very comfortable with my self or my body, very unconfident, etc. I dunno, its very hard to explain. I guess its just that I dont want him to long after the girls in the movies like that, or fantasize about being with them instead of me because they are hot and I am not. So again, its really my own personal insecurity problems. [MeghanLynn11]
I don't find watching X rated films annoying. If it helps a relationship, then go for it. If your partner doesn't want you to watch those films, she/he could be implying something; like come on over and let's do it or let's find those things together. [tvildosola]
Hey there phillygirl606,i have to ask you,are you in a relationship right now?ok,before i answer your question i also have to ask you another question,do you consider your boyfriend i assume you are in a relationship,do you consider it cheating if your man mastrabates to a adult film?keep in mind what the defination of cheating really is ok?having sex with anyone or something or someone that is satisfying your special someone other than yourself! what if your boyfriend or husband can only orgasm to that perfect woman or perfect woman on the TV screen or peep show or strip club,i hate to blow your theory about the difference between going to a strip club and watching a porno at home!its the same effect!i think why it doesn't bother you is because you are thinking its just a movie and not a real person but in this case he is doing it himself and you are not a part of that enjoyment or sexual pleasure are you and he may in fact eventually prefer the movie to your real sex then what?shouldn't he be thinking of you that way not some slease in a studio getting paid to perform for him? [bond0077]
wow a perspective I had never even thought about. And you know what everything you say makes alot of sense. But honestly it doesn't change my outlook on porn at all. I LOVE PORN, lol. But I do prefer to be watching it with someone. I never watch it alone. [phillygirl606]
Watching adult films will not make any difference in relationships. Some women unnecessary creates a hell out of that. I agree with you.. its like watching any other movie,ofcourse a part of entertainment. At the same time I can say that it all depends from person to person and their thinkings and the environment they were being brought up. So I can't blame your sister too. But ofcourse watching porns/adults film impures our heart and soul. [gloria777]
i used to not anymore i stopped this like 10 monthes ago or more [mido_thelover]
yea but why did you stop, the girlfriend doesn't like you watching it maybe? [phillygirl606]
actually i watch porn myself phillygirl606 but i don't do it a lot i save myself for my lady,and only use it to get into the mood foe sex ,not actually use it as a subsitute!i am fasinated by women who view porn actually,what makes you watch them if you don't mind me asking? my e mail address is matrex_u_rock@hotmail.com [bond0077]
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Noway, they are not disgrace and degrading. They are healthy if used optimally instead of becoming addict.One may not see their partners especially men,who by seeing women in good poses itself would get aroused. One may not see his partner in all the angles at the beauty in practicality then these soft movies help see feminine beauty from a different perspective which can get him become more excited and aroused. Perversion and excess,of course, in any form and thing is definitely not desirable [p_vadla]
i think theres no harm in watching these kind of movies like ya said its just fantasy no harm no foul me and my girlfriend see eye to eye on this she really cool and if theres nothing wrong in ur relationship then there should be no problem with it it might ever show some new trick that we can try on our partners and like u said its a whole lot better then goin to some strip club with some skeez shakin her nasty stuff in ur face then u give her ur money thats just dumb to me and like i said im lucky me and my girlfriend see eye to eye on this one [gurtinphilly]