Naked/In a sexual situation?
Personally, my partner and I enjoy art, and definitely see the human form and sexuality a form of artistic expression.
Although I never thought I would even be comfortable to be naked and engage in sex with somebody, since I have been with my partner, whom I trust wholeheartedly, I very much enjoy it, and we experiment with tasteful photography of one another.
It's actually helped me gain more confidence in my own body, that's for sure, and it's something that we enjoy doing together, even if we're not in the mood for sex, or even post-coital. We can then edit and play around with the photos - it's great fun for us (although not for everyone I'm sure).
If I didn't have complete mutual trust, respect, love & communication with my partner, I don't think I would ever engage in it, though.
So my question is: would/have you ever considered having your partner take photos of you naked?
[question posted by Malyck]
responses and comments:
At first thought of your topic, I remembered the sex scandals spread around the country because of mobile phones and other video equipment and partners taking videos of their episodes with promises that this would never be out. But well, sad to say, most let it out due to separation or revenge. I think I'd like to know first why he wants to film me. For what purpose. If he really wants to, then it's ok as long as no faces would be seen. Nor would I ever do that in my home. *LOL* Plus, I'll make sure he's already my husband. It may be kinky to do so with a boyfriend but with times like these when people have multiple partners. I'd rather be safe than sorry. As for naked photos. Hmm.. Why would he need to if he could look at me and take off my clothes anytime he wants?! *LOL* Of course is the comforts of our home that is. =) [laydee]
I'm not much of a contortionist, but in a way, that's the pictures that he is taking of me. Whenever I am laying naked in a way he finds attractive, he takes a photo (he has a keen eye for photography & art), but they almost never include genitals or my face. The ones that do get photoshopped into blur or white or something - they're all very tasteful =]. I'm definitely lucky to have such a man, having been surrounded by less than pleasant males in the past. He knows what's appropriate and what's not, and we know how to treat one another. Thanks for re-visiting, Laydee =D [Malyck]
I think if my husband asked, I would let him. But he's never brought it up. I trust him but I would be worried about someone seeing them because we kepp all of our photos on our computer and somtimes we let his cousin use our computer. [Nykkee]
haha, you sound practised in this, Laydee? LOL. Yeah, We have it password protected. I actually found, to my surprise, that having a folder called Porn, and actually having Porn in it, gets very few views, because not many people expect it to be for real =P not that i'd risk that with my own pictures, though. [Malyck]
I have had topless pics taken when I was much younger. I regretted it when we broke up the pics. wound up being seen by every one he knew! [crazed_moma]
Yeah, I think I'd be much more reluctant when it came to film - especially if it was ever put to disc or tape. I know how easy it is to lose the innocent ones, let alone anything like that!=P I think 9 years is definitely a safe bet, too =] What better motivation to lose the 'baby' belly though, really? =P lol. Anywho, I'm off to bed, I hope you have a fantastic day =D [Malyck]
You hit the nail right on the head. I would definately have to trust my partner immensely before I would allow myself to be photographed in that situation. I wouldn't want to be browsing the internet and find my butt splayed across someone's webpage. I always felt that it would help me to gain more confidence in myself to do something like this, but I have never had the equipment nor the adequate partner to do so. Maybe in the future I will find that Mr. Right with the right brand webcam to experience this. [drknlvly6781]
Well, Firstly I can admit that I hate the way I look so much that I won't even look in a mirror if at all possible. I also hate pictures. I am the picture taker. I think that some nekkid pics are very very beautifully done and I love the human body. I think it is amazing once you actually take time to think of how many types there are out there and how our body functions. Both the male and the female form are a bit of a puzzle to me that I love to think about. HOWEVER..... I was once in a very very very detrimental relationship and this guy did take pictures of me. They weren't the best nor the most unevasive. They were against my permission and he showed them to everyone, used them as blackmail and still does, and he posted some on the Net. This guy has ruined me about a lot of things and having my picture taken is one of them. I was at a point in my life where I would cry when a camera flashed. Now I've worked on it and I only twitch. It makes me look like I'm crazy lol but I avoid the camera at all costs. Having said that I love nekkid ART. It is beautiful and can be classy or trashy depending on what look you want. [PunkyMcPunk]
I have never done that, but I can't say I wouldn't. I am just so insecure with my body so I can't imagine getting naked and posing for the camera =) I am sure my husband would love it but right now I would be relly uncomfortable. Maybe after I get in better shape =) I agree though it is a great form of art and not always sexual. [Michele21]
hey, It is really a nice idea to have your partner film you when you are naked. It is a lot of fun too for everyone as for you. It can be done by anybody if they have confidence mutually. And they are careful enough to keep the tapes and pictures safely without going in to the hands of strangers. Have fun. Do more naked filming. [vijay1wdv]
I get what you mean regarding art but for me I think I would never do that.. never in this lifetime. Its just I don't want to take risk and I'm not that confident to my body. [lossforredwords]
Taking photos of me naked is one thing...posing for nudes wouldnt be a big deal for me...HOWEVER filming, being filmed or photographed while having sex i have personal issues with and won't allow it at all...But I've posed nude before so that doesnt phase me [Ravenladyj]
I think that you have to trust your partner like you said because you don't want you film or photos posted on the net and other things......... I think that i would do something like that with my partner we have been together 7 years and i totally trust him with that sort of stuff I have never made a film but i think i would if he wanted to [bronie123]
Well you can see me naked on a beach any day - no problem. Naked posing? Well I've done a bit of life modeling but that doesn't really count I suppose. Filmed having sex? Not a good idea I think - it will make too many men feel inadequate! haha No, I think however much you trust your partner now you have no idea what the future may bring and as the saying goes 'Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned'. If you enjoy exposing yourself and get an extra kick being seen having sex then get out the camera and share. Many couples do every day. [smacksman]
Sure hubby has taken photos of me many times, but it is on the digital camera and I delete them before we turn in for the night. They serve their purpose for the moment, but I have two small kids, so I do not need them coming across that stuff, EEEK! But it's fun and exciting to do those kind of things from time to time. Adds some spice you know? [sunshinecup]
My boyfriend and I use my digital camera also, and have a specific sim to use for these situations. They get taken, and then go straight on to my laptop and into a locked, password-secured folder - although there's not really anyone in my house that would stumble across it - possibly just one of my friends when they borrow my laptop from time to time. Definitely adds some spice, but at the same time it doesn't have to be a 'sexual' thing, as much as an intimate one. Thanks for your response, Sunshinecup - and I wish you many saucy nights with your hubby =D [Malyck]
I don't beleive I would be comfortable with this . It is not something my husband and I have talked about but I don't believe I would be willing to agree to this right away and would have to give this some thought . I believe it would take a lot of talking on his part and even then I don't believe I could ever feel comfortable about this . Like you said it comes down to trust and I am not sure I could trust anyone enough to allow them to do this . [samtaylorskykierajen]
I think I would alow it to be done, or do it. I think that if anything were to happen though I would have to make sure the discs or the picture were destroyed, but I don't think anything would happen, so yeah I would have to say that I think it would be fun and benificial. [carissa765]
Sure so he can look at them while I'm away. But I'd combine his two passions - me and food! Not in a gross way - just me holding a plate of something that looks delicious - as delicious as me! If Extreme Makeover ever does audtions again, I will either have him or a friend on base take the film of me. I've actually have considered this - and even have thought of cute, funny words and puppetry and such to make it stand out. [artemis432]
If no-one does it in the next few years, I'll get together some people I know and do a photo shoot =D Being in the tattoo/piercing business means that conventions are full of such housewives, or atleast women who could pose as such. So you never know, you might just see some of my controversial photography yet =P [Malyck]
I find it nice and wonderful to be photograph by my partner, but my wife doesnt like it so I havent experienced it yet [rouwel23]
Yes I would allow it. I love art.. There is nothing wrong about it.. If the person your with is the one you love and most comfortable with. there is nothing wrong. Of course that will be fun to.. It will add excitement to the relationship and spice! Its the art of Love Not Lust.. But spending it with the person your not that comfortable. Why should?! Thats not Love at all.. [anneng]
no. i dont want to. why would it. other might see the picture. i dont want to take chances. and i dont think some one would be interested though/ [indieover35]
That's fair enough, it is all about choice and comfort after all. [Malyck]
I gree with you totally I think it would be fun taking photos of each other whether they be naked or not Denise [kneeshka123]
I posed nude for college art students my senior year in high school, so I've always been very comfortable with being photographed nude. If I trust my partner, I have no problem with videotaping or photographing sexual acts. [wiccania]
I do have a few collections of me and my partner making love and also being naked. [dchamber]
=D awesome, thanks for sharing. I'm glad you're both comfortable with this art =] Mal. [Malyck]
Hello again Malyck! We seem to have much in common!! I agree with you. My husband will grab the digital camera and snap photos of me on a regular basis. I think it really keeps us comfortable with one another and spices things up a bit. As just the other day he got close and whispered in my ear "Lets go look at some pictures" I knew then what was to follow. Not only does it keep us close, its really an ego boost for me. Even when he is not looking or not taking pictures, he will say things out of the blue about how he was thinking how good I looked in this pic and what he liked about me in that pic. It makes me feel sexy, makes me feel like he is truly attracted to me how I am and it keeps me confident in our relationship. xx [BayleighGray]
=] I'm glad you like my discussions - I'm just as 'me' as I can be, asking things that I talk to any of my friends or people that I meet about.. It's also new to my boyfriend and I, especially since we haven't had any other sexual partners before =P It's awesome to have the trust and comfort to do it - it's certainly not something I could do with any partner, and I agree that it feels special =D Mal. [Malyck]
I would consider. In fact I had done this with my partner. However it was done just to enjoy our bodies with each other. The picture taken was never saved and it was only taken for a minute of view. Later after that we would delete all of them. My husband and I would pose in different pose and later view our pictures together and had a great laugh at how we looked like naked. Lol. It was fun and enjoyable moment for us. And we used it as an intimate secret to be shared only by us. [ladysurvivor]
=D That sounds like fun too. It's not always necessary to keep them I suppose, and it's great that you enjoy it at the time. Thanks for your response! Mal. [Malyck]
Put it to you this way, I doubt I'll ever be able to run for public office. I think right now there are probably at least 5 naked videos of me on the internet. Not of my doing but 2 of my ex's. I'm not shy about my body nor am I ashamed of the way I look. When I was younger I use to strip to make extra money. I've also posed for a few pics, some naked some damn near close to naked. I don't think the human body is anything to be ashamed of and I am very proud of mine. Me and my spouse always joke that if I ever ran for senate or something in the middle of an interview someone would go, "Madam senator we've just recieved some naked pics of you" and my response would be "yea which ones do you have, I'm trying to finish my collection." [devilsangel]
Haha, I absolutely love this response and your attitude. Thanks for making my smile and laugh, and good on you for living your life how you like and loving yourself! =D [Malyck]
I don't know and i don't think so. Just to avoid several things. For me its not fun and to enjoyed with. Yeh difinitely yes, its still an art of expression..I agree with you on that. Taking picture in sexual situation? or naked? Yeh, its still an art. But used it in a right way. And its depend on you and with your partner. If you both ready whatever consequences or possibilites my happen so there is nothing wrong about that. As long as you both agreed with it. [ciades]
Sorry but nope. No matter how much I trusted someone that is just something I would never do. Thats just me but I'm sure other ppl have no problem with it. **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~ [twoey68]
I did it once, but I deleted it from his mobile. i love to film it, but after we r done, I delete it, cause I m not comfortable with him keeping ti in his cellphone. Also he doesnt like keeping it in his cellphone. So we amicably delete it.lol [Lovett]
I did it once, but I deleted it from his mobile. i love to film it, but after we r done, I delete it, cause I m not comfortable with him keeping ti in his cellphone. Also he doesnt like keeping it in his cellphone. So we amicably delete it. [Lovett]
Yes, but only because he's my husband he he he he...I would think that having some recorded memories in a form of sensual pics or films could be good in the long run. Maybe when we're old, we can have nostalgic moments when we see the pics again...and we can admire how supple our bodies are when we are still young and laugh together he he he he...I agree that it's a kind of art, but the pictures or films HAVE to be kept in a very very safe place as they're very personal properties. ;-D [ailema4ever]
Haha the nostalgia comment is so true. I look forward to being with my partner for a long time, and I definitely think it will be a great memento to have even in 5 years time. It'll be a confidence and motivation booster when I see how I look now - lean and fit - if I'm not like this then =P Thanks for your response! =D [Malyck]
i have been filmed only once and photographed a few times by my boyfriend and a couple of my ex's i think that it is ok as long as you are ok about yourself, body and any sexual acts on the tape, one of my ex's passed a few photo's around but they were really hot photos and i didn't care! [nikki_111]
Haha, all the power to you. Good on you for getting the hot pics around and not being shamed or embarrassed. I guess it's all how you look at it, and it seems like you've got the right outlook. =D [Malyck]
sex is always more exciting when there is the element of adventure. this is why sex in the kitchen is more fun than sex in the bedroom. sex in the shower room would be better than casual sex. sex in the car do come in even more exciting as there is the danger of getting caught.. therefore ,it is but normal for sex to be more interesting when there is the element of adventure. this adventure extend to having multi partners. this also will extend to anal sex. girls will find it painful at first. however, they will slowly get to like them. however, their liking for anal sex is not due to any arousal brought about by the act of anal sex . it will be more to their liking because of the sense of adventure attached to it. eventually, anal sex will always be a part of the act of sex that will satisfy her. using of toys is one of the adventures one can have. it would be nice and exciting to see the girl using a toy. it expresses her openness to sex. it shows that there is no hypocrisy in her. however, it will be insulting if during the act of sex and she rejects the man and chooses to uses the toy instead. Having said, sex becomes more exciting when there is the element of adventure, and the wilder the adventure, the more exciting it becomes. nevertheless, this is also the reason why there are many people who abuse this beyond the limits of legalities and ethical righteousness. at any rate ,this is just my opinion. i did it before when i was younger. however, as i got older, i realized that these films are useless. also, they are a threat since we can never tell when these things cane be leaked out through the internet, or they might get stolen. [globaldoc2001]
Yes - long before digital cameras. He liked the pictures, I though the photograph made me look even paler then I am but he liked that too! It served to let those coloured parts of my anatomy stand out more...artistically...He was an artist and having the picture appealled to his heightened visual sense ( more so even then most guys!) [artemis432]